San Diego is the ultimate playground for an unforgettable girls’ night out—especially when you know where to go. Whether you’re celebrating a birthday, a bachelorette party, or just craving a night of cocktails and karaoke, the city’s Gaslamp Quarter is your one-stop nightlife destination. And right in the heart of it all? The Gaslamp Lighter—a retro-cool, velvet-draped lounge where the drinks are strong, the vibes are glam, and the mic is always hot.
Here’s your full guide to planning the perfect girls’ night out in San Diego—sip, sing, dance, repeat.
Start with a Toast at GaslampLighter
Every great night starts with a signature cocktail, and at GaslampLighter, the drinks do more than just start your evening—they set the tone. Think espresso martinis served in coupe glasses, set against glowing candlelight, and a mix of glam, vintage charm, and sultry lighting that’s perfect for golden hour selfies.
The velvet seating, curated playlist, and elevated bar bites make this lounge the ideal pre-game spot or the centerpiece of your entire evening. Plus, their craft cocktails rotate with seasonal flair—so there’s always something new to sip and post about.
Sing Your Heart Out with Live Karaoke
Let’s be honest: no girls’ night is complete without a little karaoke. At GaslampLighter, the mic isn’t tucked away in a side room—it’s front and center, adding just the right dose of buzz to the night. Whether your group’s going full diva with Beyoncé ballads or taking it old school with Britney or Backstreet Boys, the crowd is here for it.
Live karaoke with a DJ brings the energy to another level, and with cocktail courage on your side, there’s no shame—just cheers and standing ovations.

Glam Up Your Look for the Vibe
A night out at GaslampLighter isn’t just about where you go—it’s how you show up. This isn’t your neighborhood dive. It’s a plush, mood-lit space where velvety booths and candlelight call for a chic ensemble. Think mini dresses, statement heels, and a pop of lipstick bold enough to match your go-to karaoke track.
Make it a full glam squad moment with your girls: coordinate colors, book a blowout, and get those IG Stories ready to roll. You’ll want to remember this night—and look good doing it.
Make It a Full Night in the Gaslamp
After your karaoke queen moment, keep the night rolling in San Diego’s vibrant Gaslamp Quarter. From rooftop bars to swanky speakeasies, the area is packed with options. But let’s be real: it’s hard to top the mix of live music, luxe ambiance, and libations at GaslampLighter.
Want to keep things low-key but still fun? The bar’s candlelit booths and music-fueled energy offer the best of both worlds: enough action to feel alive, but cozy enough for real convos with your crew.

Celebrate a Special Occasion in Style
Planning a birthday bash, bachelorette party, or girls’ reunion? GaslampLighter specializes in making moments feel like magic. From curated table service to personalized drink menus and front-row karaoke seating, this venue brings the extra—without ever feeling over-the-top.
Pro tip: Reserve a table in advance for your group, especially on weekends. Ask about custom cocktails, themed playlists, or even organizing a private karaoke session if you’re going all out. Their team is all about creating a night to remember.
Let the Good Times Roll at GaslampLighter
Ready to belt out your favorite tune, sip on a handcrafted cocktail, or celebrate a milestone with style? Come see what all the buzz is about at GaslampLighter—where karaoke, cocktails, and unforgettable moments are always on the menu.
Whether it’s your first time or your fiftieth, we’re here to make every visit a hit. So grab your crew, pick your song, and join us for a night that hits all the right notes.
- Karaoke Starts at 9 PM, Tuesday–Sunday
- VIP Bottle Service Available
- Located in Downtown San Diego’s Gaslamp Quarter
For table reservations, bottle service inquiries, or private event bookings, visit and get ready to sing, sip, and celebrate in style.